 Rita (not her real name) is a project manager in a software development company who asked for coaching because she was extremely stressed at work, not sleeping well, and reported that her husband and two teenaged boys were concerned about her health. I was able to meet with Rita in person, and she did indeed look stressed. Her eyes were bloodshot and it was hard for her to sit still.
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